In recent years Morfar had been experiencing dementia, and although could be quite stubborn at times, was still kind and funny. I love that even when he couldn't remember most things he could still sing the hymns (word for word) that meant so much to him when he was younger.
I have been blessed to be a part of this family for 15 years now and have many fond memories of Morfar. He loved to fish, so did we (before we had kids), so that made us instant friends. Andreas and I spend many weekends with Mormor and Morfar at their house in Grebbestad (fishing on the ocean) or at their house in the woods (fishing where ever we could find water). No matter what, he always caught a bigger fish than I did! We considered him a friend and he would come knocking on our door at the house in the woods if we overslept... he wanted to go out and play! Morfar dropped an eel in my lap one time while picking up a long fishing line we had left overnight...that was quite an experience! We went fishing in a marshland one time and we came out with nothing, but he came out with two huge (I mean tell stories about them huge) pike. One of them left him with several scares on his hand because it really didn't want to be caught. Morfar loved to have conversations with me even thought he didn't speak any English and I didn't understand or speak any Swedish. He loved to build things, fix things, and always made sure to measure properly (which is funny because Andreas and I just wing things without measuring most of the time). In his eighties he was helping us put a metal roof on our shed out in woods... even though we were quite scared he would fall.
Morfar is sitting on the sofa to the left...the third in from the left. This is mom's dad. |
Laurie
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